“Good” Or “Christian”?

What do you want for your kids? A happy life? A nice car, nice house, nice job, nice family? Certainly, you also want them to be good people, living honestly and uprightly, right? Don’t worry, I feel the same way. I want my kids to grow up to be good people, too, but I wonder if I’m raising them to become Christians. This question was highlighted by the stirring thoughts of Phil Vischer, the creator of the popular children’s franchise Veggie Tales, as he reflected on a decade of work:

“I looked back at the previous 10 years and realized I had spent 10 years trying to convince kids to behave Christianly without actually teaching them Christianity. And that was a pretty serious conviction. You can say, ‘Hey kids, be more forgiving because the Bible says so,’ or ‘Hey kids, be more kind because the Bible says so!’ But that isn’t Christianity, it’s morality… And that was such a huge shift for me from the American Christian ideal. We’re drinking a cocktail that’s a mix of the Protestant work ethic, the American dream, and the gospel. And we’ve intertwined them so completely that we can’t tell them apart anymore. Our gospel has become a gospel of following your dreams and being good so God will make all your dreams come true. It’s the Oprah god… It’s the American Dream plus Jesus. And it produces good, moral pagans” (“How To Raise A Pagan Kid In A Christian Home,” Barrett Johnson,

Of course, I am not minimizing the many benefits of Bible-centered children’s entertainment. It is not that Veggie Tales is a bad thing for our kids or culture. But it does leave us wondering what our own objectives are in teaching our kids. Is the goal to help them be “good” people only? Is it to help them fit in, be happy, have a nice career, and fit the mold of the stereotypical moral American? Or are we trying to teach them how to be Christians – citizens of a heaven-bound spiritual kingdom of “aliens and strangers” (1 Peter 2:11) who put Christ’s will first in all things? I fear that the gospel is often a secondary force in the lives of Christian families, well behind academic, athletic, career, or romantic goals. We make pragmatic, worldly decisions first and then see where we can fit Christ in.

The First Priority

John once wrote, “Do not love the world, nor the things in the world. If anyone loves the world, the love of the Father is not in him…” (1 John 2:15-17). Furthermore, Jesus said, “He who loves father or mother more than Me is not worthy of Me; and he who loves son or daughter more than Me is not worthy of Me. And he who does not take his cross and follow after Me is not worthy of Me. He who finds his life shall lose it, and he who has lost his life for My sake shall find it” (Matthew 10:37-39). Take a minute to seriously consider what your objectives are for your kids or the young people over which you have some influence in your congregation. What would need to happen for you to deem yourself a successful parent or mentor? If your goals are entirely focused on your kids’ behavior, their happiness, or their accomplishments, but do not include a sincere dependence on Christ and a submission to His will, then it is time to make some major adjustments. After all, the world has enough pagans! The world has enough relatively, comparatively “good” people going through the motions of outward religion while allowing their hearts to be consumed by a job, a house, a degree, or, as Jesus strikingly points out, a family.